Fight But Fair

Anyone living in a total fight –free zone is probably doing a lot of giving in,while people who live for the fight are missing what life’s  really all about .Some top tips for fighting and winning.

•    Choose Your  Battles Wisely – Put any potential fight on a “cost benefit scale”to weigh what you’ll  win by standing up-or lose by backing down.

•    Listen UP-If  you are yelling  at the top of your lungs,you won’t be able to hear where others are coming from.

•    Tune Into Your Own Emotions-Sometimes confronting others is a way of  avoiding confronting things about yourself you’d rather not face.

•    Stick With The Facts-Your friend’s late,your dad’s tactless or the teacher is incorrect.”Discuss what happened,”says a psychologist,”not what you think motivated it”.

•    Avoid Name Calling-Stay away from “you always” or “you never “ or criticisms of the other persons character .Instead explain how they did,made you feel so.

•    Speak Calmly-Yelling can get you even more upset,meaning you can not  think or talk-straight.

•    Create  A Win-Win Outcome-Since compromise usually gives the best value on that cost/benefit scale,aim for a solution that meets some of the needs  of both of you.

Smile is So Important

• A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside.
  Life is short but a smile takes barely a second.
   Every tear has a smile behind it.
   A smile is a curve that sets everything straight.
•  A good neighbor is a fellow who smiles at you over the back fence, but doesn't climb over it.
• If you see a friend without a smile; give him one of yours.
• A smile starts on the lips, A grin spreads to the eyes, A chuckle comes from the belly; But a good laugh bursts forth from the soul, Overflows, and bubbles all around
•  Because of your smile, you make life more beautiful.
•  Too often we underestimate the power of a smile, which have the potential to turn a life around.
•  Smiles are the language of love.
•  The real man smile in trouble, gathers strength from distress, and grows brave by reflection.
•  A smile is an inexpensive way to change your looks
•  All people smile in the same language.
•  Children smile on the average 400 times /day; Adults: 15 times/day. Ever wonder why?
•  A warm smile is the universal language of kindness.

If I thought that a smile of mine, might linger the whole day through and lighten some heart with a heavier part, I'd not withhold it -- Would you? ??

Smile because God gave Human this beautiful gift - A Smile....I sometimes wonder do animals have this beautiful gift of smiling???
Smile, not because it costs you or not, but because you can make someone smile and make their day So Smileeeeeee please :-)) ...... Hmmm... Good, looks very good, infact suits you the best :-)

!!! AND SO IS YOURS !!!

YOUR SMILE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND._._._.MAKE IT SOME ONE ELSE'S TOO !
BE HAPPY,IT'S ONE WAY OF BEING WISE,

Tips for avoid Shyness

Shyness, which affects most people at some time in their life and it, seems to continue into adult life if it has become a habit. It has its roots in awkward and shows as people mature and become more experienced.

Tips

• Discover what makes you think shy.
• Make your self-assurance.
• Find comfortable Surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you, and build up your confidence through them.
• Close your eyes and visualize a circumstance where you might be shy.
• Keep close bonds with your friends.
• Look and act friendly. Communicate an open, responsive attitude with your body language.
• Smile and make eye contact.
• Practice good posture and speaking clearly.
• Laugh often, but only at things you find really amusing.
• Don't look fearful.
• Don't work on papers, text or do your make-up if you want someone to talk to you.
• Set goals for yourself. Focus on small, daily happenings, and then gradually become more daring.
• Make a list of situations that make you feel anxious.
• Introduce yourself to one new person each day.
• Make new friends. Try to find people who share one or more of your interests and find excuses to talk to them.
• Try doing stuff you never dreamed you would.
• Don't compare yourself to others.
• Follow the rules, but don't overdo it - You should actually let yourself go out of the box a bit and loosen up.

Positive Attitude Overcome Negative Thoughts

Your feelings and emotions influence all aspects of your life day by day. That learning from your “internal words” will help you identify thought patterns and how they may be upsetting the means you handle the situations of daily living.

Positive attitude helps to manage this situation easily. It brings confidence into your life, and avoids fret and negative thinking. If you implement it as a way of life, it will bring practical changes into your life, and makes them happier, brighter and more victorious.

Positive thoughts manifest in the following ways:

    * Positive thoughts.

    * Practical thinking.

    * Imaginative thinking.

    * Expecting success.

    * Confidence.

    * Inspiration to accomplish your goals.

    * Being encouraged.

    * Choosing Cheerfulness.

    * Study failure and evils as blessings in cloak.

    * Trust in yourself and in your abilities.

    * Displaying self-respect and self-reliance.

    * Looking for solutions.

    * Seeing opportunities.

The settlement of a positive thought:

    * Helps achieving goals and getting success.

    * Success achieved faster and more easily.

    * Get more pleasure.

    * Get more inner power and strength.

    * The ability to inspire and encourage yourself and others.

    * Fewer difficulties encountered along your way.

    * The capability to defeat any difficulty.

    * Life smiles at you.

    * People respect you.

 Developing Positive Attitude:

    * Wish to be happy.

    * See the vivid side of life.

    * Prefer to be and live hopeful.

    * Discover reasons to smile more often.

    * Trust yourself and in the Power of the Universe.

    * Study upon the uselessness of negative thinking and worries.

    * Link yourself with happy people.

    * Read exciting stories.

    * Read exciting quotes.

    * Learn attention and meditation.

You can not achieve any thing by negative attitude but you can get all success in your life by positive attitude.If you want to avoid negative thoughts, failure and difficulties, now it is the right time to change the way you think and lead your happy and successful life.